Black Tie Optional?

The question has been asked If an invitation reads “Black Tie Optional” what does this mean?  This usually means that the host would like men to dress up in a tuxedo and women in an evening gown, but doesn’t want to enforce it. Should you own a tux then you should wear it to the event! If you don’t, and do not want to rent one, then a dark gray or black suit, white dress shirt, and an elegant solid color tie (best are black or silver) will be a good alternative with a white or silver pocket square.